Tuesday 30 September 2014

A Red Flag with 5 Golden Stars - Week 9


Week 9 Vancouver, China (Suzhou, Xi’an)
21st to 28th of September

After 8 weeks, exploring known territory-previously visited and/or where we could still understand and be understood-the time has come for us to finally step out of our comfort zone BIG TIME!!!

Sweet Sally dropped us off early at the airport and we were well prepared for our 12h flight across the Pacific Ocean. China, Shanghai…here we come!! The kids were well excited to the prospect of 12h’s of watching movies!! Hee hee! Always on the scavenging for an opportunity to bribe them into some Maths and Afrikaans reading/writing, I insisted on them finishing their schoolwork for the day, before they could settle down in ‘screen’ mode. A wee encouragement always gets things done!!

We departed at 11:30am on Monday and arrived on Tuesday afternoon, 3:15pm. So this implies that we actually went across the International Date Line. We ‘lost’ a few hours, while in the air. This also meant that we did not sleep (or could not….) as much as was needed. This also meant that the kids were now under serious attack from the jet-lag monster!!!


Arriving in Shanghai airport opened the door to the Orient. New cultures to be explored, new sounds, smells, food, sights to be experienced…we were slap bang introduced to this as we were pushed and shuffed by neatly dressed men and ladies to get the first spot at the escalator!! Here, nobody has their own personal comfort zone..you just go for it. Nobody even cares if they drag their suitcase over your foot or pushes a child out of the way in the process of getting to where they aim to go. Crazy, but if you in China…you need to think  like the Chinese!!! So with that approach, we were on our bus towards Suzhou by 5:50pm. Pretty impressive for a non-Chinese speaking family…with heavy bags!!(Luckily we are now down to 2 BIG back packs, 2 smaller one’s and 1 carry bag….plus the hand luggage…still a lot though!!!)

In the fading smog-filled evening light the bumpy bus ride took us further into the unknown heart of China. It is so hard to describe the roadside sights. This will hopefully give you a small mental picture of what I saw through that bus window: a scene from a science fiction movie, where a big blast has wiped out all traces of life…the eerie big high concrete towers, unfinished, were left…with a few savaging left-behinds trying to stay alive.(Yes a bit like, Wall-E..I guess) Ok, I guess this is not what it is REALLY like, but that was just my first impression…and my heart was starting to be overwhelmed with compassion for all these people…

Back to reality: next phase-finding a taxi-man willing to take us to the SuZhou Water Town Youth Hostel, just outside the Old city. Nobody seemed to keen to help us, so at the taxi-rank we were forced again into Chinese mode…be proactive…and go for it!!! (That attitude actually help us a lot now to manage to cross a road!!) Two taxi’s later and a mere 25Yuan(or ‘Kwai’…this is slang like in ‘bucks’)(exchange rate is £1=10Yuan) we were only still a little walk away form our hostel. All good so far. Got there by 9pm.  I booked this hostel through the Hostel International’s website. We paid 10% upfront and had till the day before arrival to cancel if our plans might have changed. Our 6-bed dorm with bunk beads were clean, the aircon was working and the showers were amazingly hot. The resident staff keep it all very clean and tidy and were so helpful in their broken English. We really appreciate this, since only a handful of these China men and women can actually grabbed a few words together to converse in English. Bizzarre, yes…nobody can speak English, but all the road signs and information writing…that’s except the bus stopps(??)…. are written in Chinese caracters AND in English. I am so thankful for this, but it is a bit weird, since they do not even learn English in school!!

A biggy to introduce the kids to, were the pit/standing/squatting toilets!! AND beside that…not to drop your used toilet paper into the loo, but to place it in the waste paper basket! Yes…this place is such a mixture of the ancient and the modern..there is not even a line to draw between the two. It’s just meshed into one another.

We were really tired, so we were not so concerned when we realized that beds in China are made out of wood, with a thin duvet-tickness of matress…or that’s what it felt like!!! What did disturbed our rest was the jetlagged children waking up at 3:45am…..

So for breakfast in Suzhou, you walk out the front gate of the hostel cross over the street(2m wide in Old city center) to a wee shop, complete with hot oil in a BIG pot, on wheels. There the shop owner fry, to order, your little long bread. No more pizza and cornflakes for us!! We also had to get used to the water- machines (yes..like the one’s you will find in the UK with the upside down replaceable water bottle at the top) provide you with an option for boiling hot water or luke-warm(their ‘cold’) water. This is for all the pot noodles that everybody eats (as we would have tucked into a lunchtime sandwich) all through the day. On street everybody is also walking about with their tea-bottles (our equivalent of water bottles) with tea leaves of some kind floating in it. So as mentioned already, bread is not featuring and so is finding milk….absolute mission. Arno found a 300ml box equivalent of long-life milk…on my attempt, I brought a bottle of drinking vanilla yogurt home!!! By the looks of it, all Chinese eat off the street vendors themselves. They will have bowls of soup and these fried ‘breads’. I’ve also spotted buckets of boiled eggs, laying in a brownish colored water…but have not been brave enough to buy one…yet!!!! All the food actually looks very appetizing. Something else which we found to be a sweet delicatessen here, is a skewer with all sorts of fruit (including mini-tomatoes!!) that’s dipped into a caramel clear syrup. When left to the side, it solidifies to produce fruit candy on a stick!
Homeschooling in the SuZhou Hostel courtyard

We were enjoying the sweet courtyard of our hostel, totally unaware of the street chaos that we were about to expose ourselves to. So when we arrived it was dark and I guess, after a few China folk’s bedtimes already, but next morning they were ALL awake!!  It was after rush hour, so the traffic officer has already left his position (no one knows how those officers manage to stay alive…and if all that whistle blowing has any effect anyway… but these traffic officers are my new hero’s…they understand the principle of excising authority by position and not by demand!!) So we were left to negotiate the after-rush-hour traffic…thank goodness for that!!! Now do not get me wrong here, it was still a nail-biting afare to cross the road of 2x2 lanes with no many restrictions for electric scooters, peddle-3-wheeler-carrier bikes, normal bikes, busses, cars (old and new) BIG dumper trucks…and the rest!!! I think you get the picture. So we decide to just follow the locals…walk when then walk and stop where they stop!!

Not only this…. We totally attracted the curiosity of the nation!! Everybody stopped in their tracks, turn their heads (even those on scooters!!); then after the initial shock of seeing westerners AND with 4 CHILDREN (!!!!!!!!) they would stick four fingers in the air and wave them into the faces of Arno and I. They would start babbling in Chinese…first to us…who will shake our heads to indicate our lack of ability to communicate, then to their friends and to all around them asking (presuming…) “ Did you see THAT??They’ve got 4 children!!!”!!!!
So while we were walking towards the old city, we were smiling a lot with people and assuring them that: “Yes, they were all ours”, and “No, Arno has only one wife…” and “Yes, I am the mother of them ALL”!!! We found this so funny, but also just soak up the joy of this 4 little blessing bestow upon us!!!
We stopped for some juices and then looked for a bench in the pedestrian street to sit down. As soon as we placed our behinds on that bench, we attracted a mini crowd off the street. People were a bit more confident now and started taking pictures of us(Nina and Alana defo the favorites)..some from a distance, like true paparazzi, others came forward and wanted to pose with the children!! So that is what we give China…we give them a little bit of color and fun, a little bit of the West in their streets, shops and lives.

Our kids are getting stronger every day…we walked quite a bit to get to the Humble Administrator’s Garden. A National Tourist Attraction of Grade AAAAA, this garden is also one of China’s four most famous gardens.

Originally build during the Ming Dynasty in 1509 the garden still provides a lush of  waterways, small hidden pathway’s, exquisite buildings and luxuriant(I found this word in the pamphlet…but I do not think anything else can describe the beauty of this place better!!) vegetation. I can only imagine how beautiful it can be in the spring, with the fragrance of all the lilies; the autumn with it’s warmth of color and how delicate the scenery might be in winter…… We beat the crowds with a fraction, but as the afternoon progressed we found ourselves a bit trapped. Time to go and find dinner on the street….

We tried a few interesting looking dumpling/treats at a vendor, but it was a bit Chinese… We walked into a traditional buffet restaurant. The staff were absolutely falling over their feet to help us to decide what to have, while (behind the counter) everybody was rummaging through their bags to find their phones to take pictures. (We were wondering if we might make it onto the local evening news…)

Back at the hostel (we walked the whole way again..pfeew!!) I settled the children, while Arno was starting his adventure trying to buy tickets for the sleeper train to Xi’an. I’ll let him tell you about his. It turned out to be a night time drama….


I was slowly falling in love with SuZhou and could not wait for our next adventure down to the old city. After a bit of faffing about, we got onto a bus and then just trusted that we understood Chinese and sign language correctly. We were aiming for the free SuZhou Museum.
Carved peach stone from BC
We totally enjoyed our hour there. We were exploring the history of the area and realized that this town has been the center for cultural development and economy of southern China during the Han Dynasty (207BC to AD220). It was also during this time that the Silk Road was built. It’s original purpose was to move armies overland and for diplomatic missions. Later the Silk Road became a trade route, connecting the Imperial Court of China with the Roman Empire….with main export product: silk!!
Can you believe it….the Chinese were already refining their calligraphy (Chinese symbol writing with ink on paper),while the Vikings were still chasing each other around with clubs!!
The little girlies were particularly interested in the BIG fishpond in the court yard and were starting to dream about their own Koi-pond in Riebeek Kasteel!!

Some fun on a peddled-taxi followed. We had to hire two, which resulted in a very exciting race to get to the Lingering Garden. Our wee fellow stopped to wait for Arno’s taxi, and then we lost each other. Now we were taken down a small little inner-city (reminded me of the little streets in the Fes medina, Morocco) cobbled street to get to our point or rendezvous. Lots of banter followed with happy shrieks!!


The Lingering Garden also counts under 4 Most Famous Gardens in China and also carries the AAAAA grading of National Tourist Attractions. It was also constructed during the Ming Dynasty. We listened to some traditional Chinese harp (?) music performed by a beautifully dressed lady. (Was sad to see that not even she had a smile on her face…) This garden had so many secret passageways and hiding places. The kids were on cloud number 9..loadsa space to hide form the paparazzi!!!




I took the family back through the wee alley and we encountered some interesting ‘shop’ sights: buy your own (live) chicken for dinner, and do not forget the fish flapping about in a few buckets…fresh produce!!!! We got to the most beautiful little hide away, complete with lit-up red Chinese lanterns along the water canals. I’ve never been to Venice, always wanted to go, so I was totally in awe and wonder. It was just picture perfect!! We were welcomed into a wee off street café. They were so happy to have us, jumping around us (we were the only patrons) serving in all our needs(spoons and even a few old bended forks were dug out of drawers….), but we were determined to use chopsticks…Nina is the most skillful of us all!!


Now, just on a wee side note: a while ago I was having some chatting time with God, discussing our plans to settle in Riebeek Kasteel in South Africa. I asked for a few more confirmations. I just love to tell you this story.
Now back to where we sat ourselves down in a small insignificant café in old town SuZhou, Arno started having a wee look around (this was after we went through the palava of order something that everybody might want to eat). His eye caught a line of bottles of red wine perched on a small shelf against the wall. 6th bottle along the line was produced at the Riebeek Valley Wine Celler in South Africa!!! We do not believe in coincidence, we believe in Divine guidance… Love it!!!

After Arno’s ordeal, trying to buy train tickets gone wrong…we changed plan to purchase flights between Shanghai and Xi’an. So this meant that we had to get a bus from the hostel to the SuZhou train station, then a train to Shanghai, then underground (a few step-overs) to get to the Maglev(Magnetic Levatation train…fastest train in the world) to eventually get us to the airport in time for our flight at 13:30. Leaving our hostel just before 8am left us with PLENTY of time…or so we thought…… Not going into too much details, but two significant things went wrong, which resulted us arriving at the airport at 13:15.. We were praying that there might be a godly intervention getting us onto that plane…because the tickets were not cheap… Well, God answered our prayers…which resulted in the plane departing almost an hour behind schedule (yes, they were actually waiting for us!!! And then we had to wait for a new departing slot.) It was also the lowest point of my RWT, where we had to rush through security with ALL our luggage (because we were so late) and then were forced to leave Arno’s Swiss army knife and his Leatherman(I gave it to him as a wedding gift 15years ago…) at the x-ray machine. At this point I was seriously considering the cost of this trip…Is it worth it all?
We arrived (I pre-booked a taxi-pick-up provided by the Youth Hostel, from the airport) in Xi’an round 7pm. What a day travelling….hopefully never to be repeated in such a  fashion!!

Hang Tan Inn  (with sister hostel Hang Tan House a few yards down the street) is VERY recommendable!! The staff were sooooo helpful and could speak very good English. They helped us to buy our train tickets (and Arno was singing hallelujah praises!!!) We made a few new friends and enjoyed the lovely coffee’s and cooked meals the little restaurant at the Inn was producing. Now this was a totally world-travellers hub. So many like-minded people and stories to share.

Saturday brought us the opportunity to visit the site where the First Emperor Shi Huangdi were buried (237BC). It was discovered in 1974 when a farmer was digging for water on his land. He unearthed a clay-made body part of a Chinese warrior. With further investigation, up to date, 3 different ‘pits’ has been discovered with nearly 8000 of these Terracotta Warriors. Emperor Shi wanted to take a big army with him into the after life. All the workers were executed by the end of the project, so they made sure that their image were kept forever by creating a warrior with their face. Result each warrior has a different face! There were infantry, cavalry, archers and officers.
Horses and their chariots were also excavated. It took the emperor 33 years to create this clay army. Unfortunately, his successor was not a good man, revolution forces discovered this secret location and demolished the clay peloton, burned the wooden structures and stole all the bronze weapons. The roof fell in and the whole site was forgotten underneath layers of sediment for almost 2000 years!!

Emperor Shi Huangdi was advised that by taking some mercury tablets everyday he will secure long levity…well, needless to say he fell down lifeless at the age of 55 and was buried in a man-made hillock tomb. Nobody know what were buried with him, because it’ll take another 20 years or so before the mercury levels (presently 1000 time above normal!!!) inside the tomb, has dropped low enough for the archeologists to start investigation!!
I dreamed of seeing this 8th Wonder of the Ancient World since I was a little girl (my granny, Ouma Helie, told me about it when I was still in primary school), it was just the bestest day ever!!!


Last day in Xi’an arrives with excitement of meeting up with Arno’s school Maths teacher!! Yes, she is working at an international school in Xi’an now!! First we got dressed in waterproofs for our first proper wet travel day. Xi’an’s city wall is the best preserved, all in tacked city wall in all of China! Felt so privileged to be exploring this. Arno rented a tandem and the kids had so much fun taking turns on the back seat. I even got a wee lift too!! He did 16km carting us about between different gates on the southern section of the wall.(If you would cycle around the old city you’ll do 13km!!)
 Another bus ride (yes a trip on a public bus, anywhere cost you between 1 and 2 Kwai…that means 10 to 20pence!!) to the Big Wild Goose Pagoda, where we were supposed to be meeting Anneke. Our family expedition of the Old city wall on bike, took a bit longer than expected, but Anneke was waiting patiently…we were nearly 2 hours late!!!!! All tired and frantically hungry, we found a little noodle bar…the normal chaos to order behind us, we could settle down chatting. It was so good for me to get to know her and for Arno to walk down memory lane.



A last note of interest: (remember I prayed for confirmation…) Anneke has also started day-dreaming about settling down in Riebeek Kasteel..(huh??) She’s even been there recently……SO since we left Scotland, we’ve had 3 encounters with ‘Riebeek Kasteel’ from people and places we’ve NEVER in a million years expected it from!!! I think God is confirming his calling!!! What do you think?

Xi’an exceeded my expectations!!! I was very sad to leave our lovely hostel and the sweet street vendors outside the front door. Lady Jhe-Jhe, our tour guide to the Warriors, and our new Spanish friend, Cesar, our British friend, Katie and our friend form the Netherlands: Christal!! Do not forget Matt from Australia!! Hope to see you all soon!!!!!

‘If You believe in a dream and have the courage to try, anything is possible.’ Rick Hansen (Canadian Man in Motion)



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