Tuesday 30 September 2014

A Red Flag with 5 Golden Stars - Week 9


Week 9 Vancouver, China (Suzhou, Xi’an)
21st to 28th of September

After 8 weeks, exploring known territory-previously visited and/or where we could still understand and be understood-the time has come for us to finally step out of our comfort zone BIG TIME!!!

Sweet Sally dropped us off early at the airport and we were well prepared for our 12h flight across the Pacific Ocean. China, Shanghai…here we come!! The kids were well excited to the prospect of 12h’s of watching movies!! Hee hee! Always on the scavenging for an opportunity to bribe them into some Maths and Afrikaans reading/writing, I insisted on them finishing their schoolwork for the day, before they could settle down in ‘screen’ mode. A wee encouragement always gets things done!!

We departed at 11:30am on Monday and arrived on Tuesday afternoon, 3:15pm. So this implies that we actually went across the International Date Line. We ‘lost’ a few hours, while in the air. This also meant that we did not sleep (or could not….) as much as was needed. This also meant that the kids were now under serious attack from the jet-lag monster!!!


Arriving in Shanghai airport opened the door to the Orient. New cultures to be explored, new sounds, smells, food, sights to be experienced…we were slap bang introduced to this as we were pushed and shuffed by neatly dressed men and ladies to get the first spot at the escalator!! Here, nobody has their own personal comfort zone..you just go for it. Nobody even cares if they drag their suitcase over your foot or pushes a child out of the way in the process of getting to where they aim to go. Crazy, but if you in China…you need to think  like the Chinese!!! So with that approach, we were on our bus towards Suzhou by 5:50pm. Pretty impressive for a non-Chinese speaking family…with heavy bags!!(Luckily we are now down to 2 BIG back packs, 2 smaller one’s and 1 carry bag….plus the hand luggage…still a lot though!!!)

In the fading smog-filled evening light the bumpy bus ride took us further into the unknown heart of China. It is so hard to describe the roadside sights. This will hopefully give you a small mental picture of what I saw through that bus window: a scene from a science fiction movie, where a big blast has wiped out all traces of life…the eerie big high concrete towers, unfinished, were left…with a few savaging left-behinds trying to stay alive.(Yes a bit like, Wall-E..I guess) Ok, I guess this is not what it is REALLY like, but that was just my first impression…and my heart was starting to be overwhelmed with compassion for all these people…

Back to reality: next phase-finding a taxi-man willing to take us to the SuZhou Water Town Youth Hostel, just outside the Old city. Nobody seemed to keen to help us, so at the taxi-rank we were forced again into Chinese mode…be proactive…and go for it!!! (That attitude actually help us a lot now to manage to cross a road!!) Two taxi’s later and a mere 25Yuan(or ‘Kwai’…this is slang like in ‘bucks’)(exchange rate is £1=10Yuan) we were only still a little walk away form our hostel. All good so far. Got there by 9pm.  I booked this hostel through the Hostel International’s website. We paid 10% upfront and had till the day before arrival to cancel if our plans might have changed. Our 6-bed dorm with bunk beads were clean, the aircon was working and the showers were amazingly hot. The resident staff keep it all very clean and tidy and were so helpful in their broken English. We really appreciate this, since only a handful of these China men and women can actually grabbed a few words together to converse in English. Bizzarre, yes…nobody can speak English, but all the road signs and information writing…that’s except the bus stopps(??)…. are written in Chinese caracters AND in English. I am so thankful for this, but it is a bit weird, since they do not even learn English in school!!

A biggy to introduce the kids to, were the pit/standing/squatting toilets!! AND beside that…not to drop your used toilet paper into the loo, but to place it in the waste paper basket! Yes…this place is such a mixture of the ancient and the modern..there is not even a line to draw between the two. It’s just meshed into one another.

We were really tired, so we were not so concerned when we realized that beds in China are made out of wood, with a thin duvet-tickness of matress…or that’s what it felt like!!! What did disturbed our rest was the jetlagged children waking up at 3:45am…..

So for breakfast in Suzhou, you walk out the front gate of the hostel cross over the street(2m wide in Old city center) to a wee shop, complete with hot oil in a BIG pot, on wheels. There the shop owner fry, to order, your little long bread. No more pizza and cornflakes for us!! We also had to get used to the water- machines (yes..like the one’s you will find in the UK with the upside down replaceable water bottle at the top) provide you with an option for boiling hot water or luke-warm(their ‘cold’) water. This is for all the pot noodles that everybody eats (as we would have tucked into a lunchtime sandwich) all through the day. On street everybody is also walking about with their tea-bottles (our equivalent of water bottles) with tea leaves of some kind floating in it. So as mentioned already, bread is not featuring and so is finding milk….absolute mission. Arno found a 300ml box equivalent of long-life milk…on my attempt, I brought a bottle of drinking vanilla yogurt home!!! By the looks of it, all Chinese eat off the street vendors themselves. They will have bowls of soup and these fried ‘breads’. I’ve also spotted buckets of boiled eggs, laying in a brownish colored water…but have not been brave enough to buy one…yet!!!! All the food actually looks very appetizing. Something else which we found to be a sweet delicatessen here, is a skewer with all sorts of fruit (including mini-tomatoes!!) that’s dipped into a caramel clear syrup. When left to the side, it solidifies to produce fruit candy on a stick!
Homeschooling in the SuZhou Hostel courtyard

We were enjoying the sweet courtyard of our hostel, totally unaware of the street chaos that we were about to expose ourselves to. So when we arrived it was dark and I guess, after a few China folk’s bedtimes already, but next morning they were ALL awake!!  It was after rush hour, so the traffic officer has already left his position (no one knows how those officers manage to stay alive…and if all that whistle blowing has any effect anyway… but these traffic officers are my new hero’s…they understand the principle of excising authority by position and not by demand!!) So we were left to negotiate the after-rush-hour traffic…thank goodness for that!!! Now do not get me wrong here, it was still a nail-biting afare to cross the road of 2x2 lanes with no many restrictions for electric scooters, peddle-3-wheeler-carrier bikes, normal bikes, busses, cars (old and new) BIG dumper trucks…and the rest!!! I think you get the picture. So we decide to just follow the locals…walk when then walk and stop where they stop!!

Not only this…. We totally attracted the curiosity of the nation!! Everybody stopped in their tracks, turn their heads (even those on scooters!!); then after the initial shock of seeing westerners AND with 4 CHILDREN (!!!!!!!!) they would stick four fingers in the air and wave them into the faces of Arno and I. They would start babbling in Chinese…first to us…who will shake our heads to indicate our lack of ability to communicate, then to their friends and to all around them asking (presuming…) “ Did you see THAT??They’ve got 4 children!!!”!!!!
So while we were walking towards the old city, we were smiling a lot with people and assuring them that: “Yes, they were all ours”, and “No, Arno has only one wife…” and “Yes, I am the mother of them ALL”!!! We found this so funny, but also just soak up the joy of this 4 little blessing bestow upon us!!!
We stopped for some juices and then looked for a bench in the pedestrian street to sit down. As soon as we placed our behinds on that bench, we attracted a mini crowd off the street. People were a bit more confident now and started taking pictures of us(Nina and Alana defo the favorites)..some from a distance, like true paparazzi, others came forward and wanted to pose with the children!! So that is what we give China…we give them a little bit of color and fun, a little bit of the West in their streets, shops and lives.

Our kids are getting stronger every day…we walked quite a bit to get to the Humble Administrator’s Garden. A National Tourist Attraction of Grade AAAAA, this garden is also one of China’s four most famous gardens.

Originally build during the Ming Dynasty in 1509 the garden still provides a lush of  waterways, small hidden pathway’s, exquisite buildings and luxuriant(I found this word in the pamphlet…but I do not think anything else can describe the beauty of this place better!!) vegetation. I can only imagine how beautiful it can be in the spring, with the fragrance of all the lilies; the autumn with it’s warmth of color and how delicate the scenery might be in winter…… We beat the crowds with a fraction, but as the afternoon progressed we found ourselves a bit trapped. Time to go and find dinner on the street….

We tried a few interesting looking dumpling/treats at a vendor, but it was a bit Chinese… We walked into a traditional buffet restaurant. The staff were absolutely falling over their feet to help us to decide what to have, while (behind the counter) everybody was rummaging through their bags to find their phones to take pictures. (We were wondering if we might make it onto the local evening news…)

Back at the hostel (we walked the whole way again..pfeew!!) I settled the children, while Arno was starting his adventure trying to buy tickets for the sleeper train to Xi’an. I’ll let him tell you about his. It turned out to be a night time drama….


I was slowly falling in love with SuZhou and could not wait for our next adventure down to the old city. After a bit of faffing about, we got onto a bus and then just trusted that we understood Chinese and sign language correctly. We were aiming for the free SuZhou Museum.
Carved peach stone from BC
We totally enjoyed our hour there. We were exploring the history of the area and realized that this town has been the center for cultural development and economy of southern China during the Han Dynasty (207BC to AD220). It was also during this time that the Silk Road was built. It’s original purpose was to move armies overland and for diplomatic missions. Later the Silk Road became a trade route, connecting the Imperial Court of China with the Roman Empire….with main export product: silk!!
Can you believe it….the Chinese were already refining their calligraphy (Chinese symbol writing with ink on paper),while the Vikings were still chasing each other around with clubs!!
The little girlies were particularly interested in the BIG fishpond in the court yard and were starting to dream about their own Koi-pond in Riebeek Kasteel!!

Some fun on a peddled-taxi followed. We had to hire two, which resulted in a very exciting race to get to the Lingering Garden. Our wee fellow stopped to wait for Arno’s taxi, and then we lost each other. Now we were taken down a small little inner-city (reminded me of the little streets in the Fes medina, Morocco) cobbled street to get to our point or rendezvous. Lots of banter followed with happy shrieks!!


The Lingering Garden also counts under 4 Most Famous Gardens in China and also carries the AAAAA grading of National Tourist Attractions. It was also constructed during the Ming Dynasty. We listened to some traditional Chinese harp (?) music performed by a beautifully dressed lady. (Was sad to see that not even she had a smile on her face…) This garden had so many secret passageways and hiding places. The kids were on cloud number 9..loadsa space to hide form the paparazzi!!!




I took the family back through the wee alley and we encountered some interesting ‘shop’ sights: buy your own (live) chicken for dinner, and do not forget the fish flapping about in a few buckets…fresh produce!!!! We got to the most beautiful little hide away, complete with lit-up red Chinese lanterns along the water canals. I’ve never been to Venice, always wanted to go, so I was totally in awe and wonder. It was just picture perfect!! We were welcomed into a wee off street café. They were so happy to have us, jumping around us (we were the only patrons) serving in all our needs(spoons and even a few old bended forks were dug out of drawers….), but we were determined to use chopsticks…Nina is the most skillful of us all!!


Now, just on a wee side note: a while ago I was having some chatting time with God, discussing our plans to settle in Riebeek Kasteel in South Africa. I asked for a few more confirmations. I just love to tell you this story.
Now back to where we sat ourselves down in a small insignificant café in old town SuZhou, Arno started having a wee look around (this was after we went through the palava of order something that everybody might want to eat). His eye caught a line of bottles of red wine perched on a small shelf against the wall. 6th bottle along the line was produced at the Riebeek Valley Wine Celler in South Africa!!! We do not believe in coincidence, we believe in Divine guidance… Love it!!!

After Arno’s ordeal, trying to buy train tickets gone wrong…we changed plan to purchase flights between Shanghai and Xi’an. So this meant that we had to get a bus from the hostel to the SuZhou train station, then a train to Shanghai, then underground (a few step-overs) to get to the Maglev(Magnetic Levatation train…fastest train in the world) to eventually get us to the airport in time for our flight at 13:30. Leaving our hostel just before 8am left us with PLENTY of time…or so we thought…… Not going into too much details, but two significant things went wrong, which resulted us arriving at the airport at 13:15.. We were praying that there might be a godly intervention getting us onto that plane…because the tickets were not cheap… Well, God answered our prayers…which resulted in the plane departing almost an hour behind schedule (yes, they were actually waiting for us!!! And then we had to wait for a new departing slot.) It was also the lowest point of my RWT, where we had to rush through security with ALL our luggage (because we were so late) and then were forced to leave Arno’s Swiss army knife and his Leatherman(I gave it to him as a wedding gift 15years ago…) at the x-ray machine. At this point I was seriously considering the cost of this trip…Is it worth it all?
We arrived (I pre-booked a taxi-pick-up provided by the Youth Hostel, from the airport) in Xi’an round 7pm. What a day travelling….hopefully never to be repeated in such a  fashion!!

Hang Tan Inn  (with sister hostel Hang Tan House a few yards down the street) is VERY recommendable!! The staff were sooooo helpful and could speak very good English. They helped us to buy our train tickets (and Arno was singing hallelujah praises!!!) We made a few new friends and enjoyed the lovely coffee’s and cooked meals the little restaurant at the Inn was producing. Now this was a totally world-travellers hub. So many like-minded people and stories to share.

Saturday brought us the opportunity to visit the site where the First Emperor Shi Huangdi were buried (237BC). It was discovered in 1974 when a farmer was digging for water on his land. He unearthed a clay-made body part of a Chinese warrior. With further investigation, up to date, 3 different ‘pits’ has been discovered with nearly 8000 of these Terracotta Warriors. Emperor Shi wanted to take a big army with him into the after life. All the workers were executed by the end of the project, so they made sure that their image were kept forever by creating a warrior with their face. Result each warrior has a different face! There were infantry, cavalry, archers and officers.
Horses and their chariots were also excavated. It took the emperor 33 years to create this clay army. Unfortunately, his successor was not a good man, revolution forces discovered this secret location and demolished the clay peloton, burned the wooden structures and stole all the bronze weapons. The roof fell in and the whole site was forgotten underneath layers of sediment for almost 2000 years!!

Emperor Shi Huangdi was advised that by taking some mercury tablets everyday he will secure long levity…well, needless to say he fell down lifeless at the age of 55 and was buried in a man-made hillock tomb. Nobody know what were buried with him, because it’ll take another 20 years or so before the mercury levels (presently 1000 time above normal!!!) inside the tomb, has dropped low enough for the archeologists to start investigation!!
I dreamed of seeing this 8th Wonder of the Ancient World since I was a little girl (my granny, Ouma Helie, told me about it when I was still in primary school), it was just the bestest day ever!!!


Last day in Xi’an arrives with excitement of meeting up with Arno’s school Maths teacher!! Yes, she is working at an international school in Xi’an now!! First we got dressed in waterproofs for our first proper wet travel day. Xi’an’s city wall is the best preserved, all in tacked city wall in all of China! Felt so privileged to be exploring this. Arno rented a tandem and the kids had so much fun taking turns on the back seat. I even got a wee lift too!! He did 16km carting us about between different gates on the southern section of the wall.(If you would cycle around the old city you’ll do 13km!!)
 Another bus ride (yes a trip on a public bus, anywhere cost you between 1 and 2 Kwai…that means 10 to 20pence!!) to the Big Wild Goose Pagoda, where we were supposed to be meeting Anneke. Our family expedition of the Old city wall on bike, took a bit longer than expected, but Anneke was waiting patiently…we were nearly 2 hours late!!!!! All tired and frantically hungry, we found a little noodle bar…the normal chaos to order behind us, we could settle down chatting. It was so good for me to get to know her and for Arno to walk down memory lane.



A last note of interest: (remember I prayed for confirmation…) Anneke has also started day-dreaming about settling down in Riebeek Kasteel..(huh??) She’s even been there recently……SO since we left Scotland, we’ve had 3 encounters with ‘Riebeek Kasteel’ from people and places we’ve NEVER in a million years expected it from!!! I think God is confirming his calling!!! What do you think?

Xi’an exceeded my expectations!!! I was very sad to leave our lovely hostel and the sweet street vendors outside the front door. Lady Jhe-Jhe, our tour guide to the Warriors, and our new Spanish friend, Cesar, our British friend, Katie and our friend form the Netherlands: Christal!! Do not forget Matt from Australia!! Hope to see you all soon!!!!!

‘If You believe in a dream and have the courage to try, anything is possible.’ Rick Hansen (Canadian Man in Motion)



Pine apples and Canadian Reunion - Week 8

Week 8 (Hawaii, Vancouver)
15th to 21st of September

Jack Johnson, Bethany Hamilton, Wayne Cordeiro, Joe Onesai,

Hawai’i being Hawai’i…you just can’t get anywhere before going for a dip(swim) in the warm sea. We also had the added bonus (?) of needing to wait until 10am(aaaaaaaaaa) so that the kids can go for a swim in the pool….before we can even begin to think about going anywhere!!!.
The children absolutely loved that pool…even though it was colder, by far, than the ocean. We had to keep a close eye on Nina, because she was starting to believe that she can swim…and doing a pretty good job of it…but still… Philippa started to be very confident too. So we encouraged them to go in the water as much a possible, not that they needed much persuasion!!!

Result of all this is, that it was lunch time before we actually made it over to the Dole Pineapple Plantation. It was a hot-hot day, but everybody was excited to find all the secret boxes hidden in the biggest maize in the world.
Pineapple flower
Our ride in the Pineapple Express train was followed by the most delicious pineapple ice cream. I am slavering just by the thought of that ice cream…yumyum.



We parked ourselves again on Haleiwa beach. The waves were even stronger than the previous time here, so we did not stay to long, but Alana showed her steel in a few attempts on the surf board. She now swam out deep with Arno and had a few fantastic wipe outs!! Every little bit of practicing counts. Nina was crying to get her chance on the board…but the water was just a bit wild. Meanwhile, Thomas had a few boogie rides and then ‘retire’. He kept Philippa company under the palm tree, people watching!! Philippa’s skin gets irritated by the seawater, so she prefer to play in the sand and sit under the palm tree. That’s why she loves playing in the pool so much!!
Ph with her shell collection

All this time in Hawaii we have not been on a white sandy beach, so on Tuesday we went to the Kaulia beach. We made a lunch stop at the world-famous Shrimp-Shack and then headed for the beach. It was fantastic aquamarine seas with the most soft white sand. For a change we managed to get Philippa playing in the water too. The little girlies started balancing on the boogie boards, with Nina ended up standing on her own on top of the board! Wow!! She is determined!

Too soon our last day on the paradise island of O’ahu arrived. Our flight was not till mid-evening, so we planned to spend it on Waikiki beach.


A glorious afternoon..just as you can imagine it! The best part of it all, both Alana and Nina stood up on the surfboard and actually rode a bit of a wave!!!

Before we depart from Hawaii, I better tell you a bit about the islands!!

Hawaii is the 50th, and most recent US state to have joined in 1959. It is the northern most island group in Polynesia. The tropical climate, beaches and active volcano’s make it a very popular tourist destination. It hosts more than 1 million permanent residents. The state encompasses of hundreds of islands, spread out over 2 400km, with the eight main islands in the south-east. O’ahu is the 3rd biggest island and also referred to as the ’gathering place’. The ‘Big Island’ (Hawai’i) and Maui (The Valley Island) are bigger. The islands were (and continue to be) formed from volcanic activity. This volcanic activity is initiated by an undersea magma source called a hot spot.
Because the islands are so far away from other habitats, its said to be inhabited by the 3 W’s – wind, waves and wings(birds carrying seeds)

……. back to Vancouver, Canada, we go. You might wonder why we were flying ‘back’. Our wonderful travel agent helped us to find the best deals on flights and this route proven to tick just that box. We were very pleased with this suggestion, since our good friends, Sally and Brandon (and their 4 kiddo’s) live in Vancouver, British Columbia(BC). It was a bit weird departing at 8:30pm and to be arriving in Vancouver at 5am after a 6hour flight. We were all a bit passed it……but the adrenaline rush, seeing our bestest friends again, kept us going! Sally picked us up form the airport and by the time we got to their home(round 6am) most of the children were up and welcoming us! Even Brandon was still there before work and we were having a great BIG reunion ‘koffie en beskuit’(rusks dipped into morning coffee) around the kitchen table. This was the theme for the rest of our long weekend with the Stellings!! Loadsa catching up, food and more food and loadsa down-time play time for the children.

We met Brandon and Sally (and Mikyla) when we moved to Kilmarnock, Scotland in 2006. 6 months later they decided to relocate to BC. We were not happy, but we trusted that God would protect our friendship. In 2008 we had the opportunity for just that, when we visited them in Canada. Between us we had 6 children then, with Philippa and Amy under 1 year old. What a joy for these children to visit with one another again. Nina and Jason still had to be introduced, but within minutes all the children were playing together as if it was yesterday since the last time they have met up!!

It may be a house filled with girls, but we were walking into football heaven! They all play footie and Brandon coach on a Saturday. Thomas was delighted to join Mikyla at practice…even though it’s a bit of a carry on with insurance restrictions and all that. Praise God for a very kind coach!!

We had to get a few things repaired here: Thomas’s glasses broke in LA (do not ask me how….and he even managed lose a part of it….) and the hard drive’s smoke was also out.(Arno was pretty annoyed about this, since he had spend numerous hours ripping DVD’s and Cd’s onto it.) Well, the feedback is all positive. We manage to find a frame that fitted the lenses and Arno found a company to recover all our data. Obviously two unforeseen VERY expensive repairs, but we were so thankful to have found people to help us with this.

What a delight it was for me to go for two fantastic runs with my long lost running partner!! It was just the best thing!!! I can not wait until we meet again(Jan2015 in South Africa!!!!!!) for a repeat!!!
Arno went biking with Brandon. Thomas joined them this time.A few years back Brandon connected with a tree on a similar outing with Arno…luckily this acrobatic performance was not repeated!! A nice play at the Spanish Banks Beach overlooking Vancouver city, was followed by our first official sushi dinner!! There were sausages on the side for the fussy eaters too!!

We also visited the British Columbia Hall of Fame. This forms part of the BC Lions American Football Stadium. Here we were introduced to BC’s cancer hero Terry Fox. After losing his leg at 21years of age to cancer, he dreamed about raising $1 per Canadian(23 000 000) for cancer research by running across Canada. He never finished the race, due to the return of cancer to his body. When he passed away at 23 years old, he has raise £24 million after running 3 339miles. Once a year in September all BC school children take part in the Terry Fox Fundraising race. In 2012 $550 million has been raised!!!
Walking into his future!!!!

Another Canadian role model is called Rick Hansen or ‘Man in Motion’. This man wheeled himself around the world in a chair (was paralyzed in a freak road accident). It took him 2 years, 2months and 2 days. By doing this he raised $26million for spinal cord injury research.
I love this quote by him: ‘Success is not measured in how you use your arms and legs, it’s how you live your life.’

We love Vancouver!! Basically all of British Columbia!! Sometimes we wish God wants to sent us here!! Well, saying that…it is also the most expensive place to live in…so He’ll need to provide us with a small fortune on the side, if it’s the case..Hee hee. Well, at the moment our desire for South Africa is just growing stronger with in us!

A lovely sunny Sunday greeted us and we accompanied the Stellings to Tenth Church (In Tenth Street) Two Sunday’s in a row attending church!!! Witness a beautiful baptism and got the opportunity to meet with Kevin Knight, Founder of ‘Manna for Life’.This project in Cambodia(!!) is helping the community of displaced people to establish better opportunity and creating a better living environment. Kevin was prompted by God to go and live amongst this people group in a slum in Cambodia. At that stage they’ve been displaced twice by government officials. He do not preach to them, but work alongside them, being Jesus in real life for them. He is married to Latika, who grew up in a similar hopeless environment. Together they are providing a light on their doorstep( literally and figuratively) for these people. Their community used to be called “blue tarpaulin village”, but the people has started calling themselves the ‘white village of steel’. Just before Kevin and Latika departed for their feedback trip to Canada, the government has issued the people of the village(nearby Odong, 38km north of Phnom Pheng) with ‘soft’ land title deeds!! This means that they are acknowledging this village and most likely will not displace or move them again!! We believe this was a godly connection, set up for us. We are now planning to make a slight change to our Cambodian itinerary to visit them for a night or two!! How good is that??!!

We danced through the twilight hours as part of the finale in a not-to-be-missed talent show. Surely, that back garden will carry these happy memories of a final last summers eve in 2014..till we visit again (hopefully the kids will not be to ‘big’ then to entertain us on the monkey bars and in ballerina tutu’s!!)

I’ll leave you with one final quote of Terry Fox:
‘How many people do something they really believe in? I wish people would realize that anything is possible-dreams are made if people try’






Monday 29 September 2014

How to (not!) buy train tickets....

A: How to buy a train ticket in China.
1) get yourself to the main station in Shuzou after navigating the metro for the 1st time.
2) try the counter with the shortest queue.
3) proceed to designated longer queue where the clerk could maybe speak english.
4) wait a bit.
5) get to the front and explain that you want to buy train tickets to Xi'an.
6) sort of get the message that there are not any sleeper berths left to Xian.
7) buy 4 tickets to Xi'an
8) go back home and wonder why 'Xi'an' doesnt look like 'Xi'an' on the ticket, maybe the spelling is different.
9) get home and ask friendly and helpful hostel staff why the spelling is different.
10) realise that ticket is not for Xi'an but somewhere else in China.....get a note in Chinese saying you want your money back.
11) go back to said station and find same counter.
12) stand in line.
13) Smile to helpful clerk and show that these tickets dont go to Xi'an.
14) get smile back and acknowledgement that these tickets wont take you to Xian and that there are not any other tickets left.
15) refund not possible with friendly clerk.
16) go to north side of station and repeat steps 2 to 5.
17) repeat steps 13 and 14.
18) get refund.
19) phew.
20) go back to hostel and find alternative means of transport to Xi'an.
21) find that all google related websites have been blocked by the Great Firewall.
22) have a nice cold beer with friendly Canadian at hostel.
23) all is well with the world......

(until he had to tell me in the morning that we still were going no where the next day - M)

Warm Waves and Winking Stars - Week 7

Week 7 (Los Angeles, Hawaii)
7th to 14th of September

Packing up our tent in Plaskett Creek was with bitter-sweetness. We have come to the end of the first quarter of this dream trip, by finally folding that VANGO super-duper tent away. This time we actually had to do it well, so it can go back into the teeny-weeny bag!!! By camping we made our 23-day road trip across Western America super affordable. It was not easy (most of the time), but it was one of those experiences which we will carry with us…sweet-sweet memories engraved upon our hearts…molding us as a family together. THIS is what this trip is ALL about!
When we started off in Carbondale, Colorado, we purchased a few extras, like a cooler box, camping chairs, washing-up bucket (the rest I brought from Scotland with us…like the cutlery, IKEA plastic plates, multi-mat self inflatable camping matrasses and sleeping bags). Now we were getting to the stage where we were getting rid of our chairs by blessing a ‘surfer family’ with them!!

Beautiful day again to be out on the coast. At our first out-look stop, we spotted a herd of whales (flote (float), gram, grind (bottle-nosed), herd, mob, pod, run, school, shoal, or troup (troop)……there you have the word(s) for it!!!)…actually a few troops of them. ‘Hunners’ of them….. we were mesmerized!!  It took us a very long time before we could drag ourselves away from this Godly concert in nature!! The road down south was still long, with quite a few sights still to be explored….
Next stop was the elephant seal colony, just north of Hearst Castle at San Simeon. Man those seals are BIG and SMELLY!!! They appeared here in 1990 and are still there. They are known to choose a spot to breed, stay there for some years and disappear again…nobody knows why…. On the day we were there, we saw around 400 of them, but were told that in the breeding season(winter) there can be up to 3000 seals crawling over each other on this small beach. That’s nature for you!!!!!
We treated ourselves with a coffee at the Cumbria Coffee Roasting Company…upon my request for directions to the nearest public toilets(called ‘rest rooms’ in the States…or ‘potties’????) I was told that, because of the drought and water restrictions, nobody in the town are allowed to flush toilets, but there are ‘porta potties’ in a wee side street for public use. Wow! We also experience restrictions on lighting wood fires in Plaskett Creek…which was a bit of an odd experience – camping without a braai(bbq).

San Luis Obispo(the fifth Californian Mission founded in 1772)  provided the next leg-stretching opportunity. Our guidebook told us about the ‘bubblegum alley’ – we just had to go and stick our bits of chew-goo on that wall too!! 
Next, the Madonna Inn considered as a pilgrimage site for lovers of All-American kitsch!!! Still not done in San L. Last stop(since we’ve not manage north into the famous Californian Napa valley) we choose the Tolosa Winery.
Imagine James Bond creating a tasting room, all sleek and sophisticated… We fell in love with their Tolosa 2012 No Oak Chardonnay ( you can get the expert opinion on this wine here: We just thought it was really nice!!!
By this stage it was already late afternoon and we still had a long way to go, but we just could not by-pass Santa Barbara’s Old Mission(founded in 1786).
Unfortunately it was after closing time, but it was still such a peaceful atmosphere that welcomed us at the church. It is still an active gathering spot- 225 years later!!! We had a bit a of a struggle getting the Suburban fueled up, but the wonderful frozen yogurt joint, we stumbled upon, made up for it…everybody(except our exceptional Nina…) can be bribed with ice cream!!!! (What child does not like ice-cream??? Well, we’ve got one…….!!!)

 Praise God for safe guidance to our hotel/motel close to Downtown Hollywood. On our second last day in the US, I got my Mexican carry-out dinner, kids got their McD’s and everybody went to bed well fed and HAPPY!!
Monday was spend finding stars of our favorite actors/actress and celebs in Hollywood Boulevard, driving through Beverly Hills, and getting a view over the city from Mulholland Drive - a 21-mile long road, loosely following the ridgeline of the eastern Santa Monica Mountains and the Hollywood Hills. We had a bit of a I-do-not-feel-well incident here, but hey ho…after 3 500 miles travelled with 4 young children and only one emergency stop… I think we did very well!!!!



Tuesday morning arrived and a new excitement was brewing… After our make-it-yourself waffle breakfast at our hotel, we packed the Suburban for the final time..blessed some more people with left over camping supplies and off we went to LAX International Airport. We were so ready for our planned week of swimming, surfing and celebrating in Hawai’i.

Our 5h flight to the popular island of O’ahu passed very quickly. United Airlines do not provide you with food onboard, but you can purchase it if you need to.(We are just so use to taking our own snacks on board, that it’s really not an issue.) You get free soft drinks though. What annoyed us on our flight from Orlando to Denver was that we even had to pay for our in-flight entertainment. Well, on that flight, needless to say, we just had to read books and play card games!!! Luckily, it was a different story on the Hawaii flight and everybody was HAPPY!!!!

We arrived late afternoon in Honolulu, picked up our Dodge 7-seater from Dollar Car rental (they even picked ups up with a wee bus at the airport!!) and we were off to the North Shore. We rented a one-bedroom condominium on Pat’s at Panaluu. On our way there we did a shop-stop: main purpose to pick up ingredients for an imminent special 6th birthday party.

When we first started sharing our vision/dream with the kids we made sure to create a mind picture of which friends we were planning to see and what places we were planning to visit. From the start everybody talked about where they will be having their birthdays…where will we be in July, where will we be in September. Shortly after Philippa discovered that we will celebrate her birthday in Hawai’i, she drew us a picture. This girl did not only listened with her ears, but she formed a picture in her mind of the things that we were believing for; the things that we were dreaming of and started to plan towards. We put the picture up against the wall of our hallway. She helped us to see our vision. Every day we looked at it, we talked about it and we worked hard towards achieving this goal. As I am writing this, I am feeling quite emotional thinking back to September, 10th . We did not stand on the side line watching somebody else’s dreams being full filled…no!!! We were part of that picture (now long packed into a removal box….) we were acting the scene out!!! We were waking her up with her midnightly-decorated-blue ocean and beach cake….just as she has dreamed and drawn about! We were living this dream and it felt sooooooo GOOD!!!

A very relaxing day followed. After birthday cake for breakfast and French toast for brunch (again requested by birthday girl), we spent the rest of our first day on the island swimming in the residential pool(straight in front of our ground floor condo) and in the aqua-marine hotter-than-bath-water ocean!! Afternoon picnic-party was held on the grassy strip between the block of condo’s and the beach..underneath the palm trees…idyllic!!! 

Another sunny day begged for deeper investigation into surfer’s paradise. We drove northwards from Panaluu. Now the desperate state of my bikini needed some serious attention. I found this to be a great BIG project of endurance and failure…. Arno’s annoyance turned into sympathy as he realized..now at the second shop..hours later…what a battle I was fighting!! The whole palava was eating into his precious surfing time…I understood that, and that made me even more desperado!!! With an success rate of 50%(yes I eventually found a bikini bottom that worked…) we decided on Haleiwa beach. Hot-hot sand forced us to hide under the palm tree shade, but with-in a few minutes we were messing about in the surf. At this stage I just need to point out that my one-and-only-son, who has told me so many times that (I was almost worn down to believe him) he hated sand and will never ever ever swim in the ocean….well, there he was boogie-boarding the waves like a pro. For more than 2 hours he, together with Alana, challenged the waves, got rolled about, dumped on the beach and raced each other back for more. I have not seen those two kids enjoying the ocean as much as that afternoon!!!

Arno was trying to find his ‘surfer legs’ again amongst a growing number of local pro’s as the afternoon progressed. It was so cool to be on a beach where the local girls came for their surf lessons after school. Alana’s age and younger. She was itching for a shot on the board, so as soon as Arno came closer to the shore she took him back in to teach her. I am so proud of this girl. She manage to stand up on the board within the hour!!...AND then..my treat for the afternoon…to see wee Nina’s face when her daddy let her go on a wave from way back. First on the boogie board and finally on the surfboard in the more shallow waters. At this stage she was still happy to lay down!!
We had to keep our promise…one of Philippa’s birthday wishes was to have a Hawaiian pizza in Hawaii…and that is what we did for dinner (although Arno and I were aching to try some of the local fish delicacies.)

We had a wee surprise lined up for the kids: we planned to take them to the opening day of the film Dolphin Tale 2. What a lovely movie!!(I was very sad to find out that we actually passed the aquarium in Clearwater Beach, Florida…and did not know that we could have taken the kids to go and meet ‘Winter’, the dolphin without a tale!!) What was also vey significant of this movie, is that Bethany Hamilton made a gust appearance in the movie. She is one of our role models, and such an inspiration, spiritually and physically!!(She grew up in Hawaii(!!). The movie ‘Soul Surfer’ tells her story. I am not giving it away…it’s a must see!!!!)

We met up with Pastor Joe Onesai. We befriended him last year, as he visited Scotland. This big Samoan Chief has planted Destiny Church in Pearl Harbor, Honolulu, 3 and a half years ago. God is building his church, with 3 Sunday services and one midweek service. We were so blessed by hanging out with him!!

We had to squeeze in some more sunning and surfing on Saturday, before we got dressed up to attend the Polynesian experience at the Culture Center. What a fantastic introduction to the culture of Hawaii and beyond. Each one of the six different nations hosted 30min long shows presenting a different aspect of that specific culture. This was homeschooling at it’s best!! We then proceeded to the Luau – where we were entertained by song and dance while we stuffed ourselves with traditional delicacies. We witnessed the whole ceremony of getting the whole-day-roasted-underneath-banana-leaves-on-hot-stones-pork of the stones and onto our plates!! 
Not finished yet…we proceeded to the very large auditorium to see the spectacle: ‘Breath of Life’. This enactment of the Polynesian cradle to grave story, complete with haka, fire-dancers and –eaters, love and eternal life kept us (front row seats…excuse me!!!) glued to our seats for more than 2hours. It was FANTASTIC!!!!

We visited Pastor Joe’s church on Sunday morning and enjoyed making some new godly connections with Christine and Leo Bogee. These guys are running a marriage ministry with the main aim on self-awareness. Very excited to ready a bit more about it in the book written by Leo himself!! This was our first church visit since Greenville and we were just soaking it all up. What a joy to be amongst believers- regardless of culture or langue. Thanks Pastor Joe for welcoming us and blessing us so much!! We can’t wait to welcome you and Pastor Ann in South Africa!!

Off to the Pearl Harbor Memorial Site. Not one of the most happiest times of my day, but a time of reflection for me and education for the children. On the 7th of December 1941 more than 2500 soldiers gave their lives in the quest of a free and fair world. The surprise attack by Japan on Pearl Harbor, where most of the American fleet were stationed, kick-started the Second World War for America. I just feel sad about war and rumors of war…


Sunday afternoon at Waikiki beach…well, that did not happen, because we could not find parking!! Hee hee. Went the long way back home and checked out a few neighborhoods, where someday… we might come back to our weekend house!! Yes.. I can dream!!!!